If We Were Having Coffee // Vol. 4

If we were having coffee I’d say you might want to get comfy for a big old catch up, because this girls got a lotta’ talking to do.

catch up
If we were having coffee I’d go for an iced latte, there’s been sun in England for a whole 5 minutes and I’m already in my summer mindset…can you blame me?

If We Were Having Coffee…

I’d tell you how I’ve been feeling slightly…dazed? I decided to post once a week, however I just feel I’m no longer active in the blogging world. In my defence I’ve been superrr busy, and as blogging is only a hobby of mine I have to prioritise other things. But I’ve missed it, and from a ‘blogger’ point of view, my stats have dropped massively. And I’m missing everything. So I’m going to get my butt into gear and try to go back to posting every Monday and Thursday…emphasis on try (eek!).

If We Were Having Coffee…

I’d tell you I bought 2 new cacti! (The life I lead…the highlight of my month is buying plants…) But they’re tiny cacti and I’m sort of in love.

If We Were Having Coffee…

I’d tell you I’ve finally finished reading ‘Holding up the universe’ by Jennifer Niven. And I must say I preferred ‘All the bright places’ however this book was still good. Jennifer Niven definitely has this unique way of writing about her which I just can’t help but love, and the concepts of characters she devises is pretty amazing.

If We Were Having Coffee…

I’d go on another rant about myself. I feel guilty. If you look closely, the last few posts of mine have all been something in collaboration with a company. Some of you may think ‘wow she’s so lucky’ – but all I feel is straight up guilt. Don’t get me wrong, every company or brand I do a post for will be because I like the brand and I want to – but they’ve all seemed to approach me at the same time. And a girls got deadlines to keep.

But I can’t help this wave of iniquity cast over me because I don’t want it to seem that’s all I do. I think that’s why I’m going back to posting twice a week? Maybe? I don’t know. Thinking about it makes my brain blurry, but I’m back to posting my own stuff and there’s a lot coming! Okay, rant over.

If We Were Having Coffee…

I’d tell you island hopping plans are well underway. And it’s creeping up on us very quickly – but I’m so excited! I’m already swimsuit shopping for it…oops.

If We Were Having Coffee…

I’d tell you how I’ve been getting into drawing more recently, and designing bits n bobs. They’re nothing special but I’ve found another hobby of mine, they make me want to put them on prints or embroider them onto t shirts, but I’d honestly have no clue where to start. But I have no time whatsoever!

Unit next time,

Em x



  1. helloitsjo
    20/04/2017 / 10:50 am

    This is the cutest post!!! I’ve dropped slightly in my dedication to blogging too but hopefully trying to pick it back up! and oh my gosh cacti are SO in at the moment haha! They’re are so pretty and cute!!!! fab post 🙂 xxxx

    • emibeccamarven
      20/04/2017 / 11:14 am

      Aww thank you so much!! I love writing them! I guess we all have moments like this? I knowww I love plants and now they’re really in I’m so in my element haha! Thank you beautiful xxx

      • helloitsjo
        20/04/2017 / 11:25 am

        ❤ ❤ ❤

  2. 20/04/2017 / 11:47 am

    This is my favourite little series of yours so orginal. If we were having coffee… I’d say stop worrying about doing work for brands it’s exciting and when it’s all come at once it’s a start to something exciting, don’t pressure yourself. Can’t wait to see what islands you’re going to sounds so exciting!!

    Always love your posts

    Much love
    Holly x

    • emibeccamarven
      20/04/2017 / 1:59 pm

      Ahh gal thank you so much! It is really exciting, I don’t know I just felt bad haha! Thank you though girl, it’s lovely to have reassurance. I can’t wait to go and blog about it ah! So much love for you! x

  3. possiblysami
    20/04/2017 / 8:27 pm

    Your posts are always so genuine and you’re so true to yourself I love it. Honestly, love reading your posts before bed where I’m all snuggled up. I can understand about how it’s hard to focus on blogging when you’re really busy with life, but i’d take it as a good thing! love you Em xx

    • emibeccamarven
      23/04/2017 / 1:48 pm

      Girl. Your comments never fail to make me smile uncontrollably, you absolute angel. I will take it as a good thing, thank you b<3 So much love for you! xx

    • emibeccamarven
      23/04/2017 / 1:45 pm

      Ahhh I’m so glad you like it lovely! x

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